Melanie is our host for Truthful Tuesday until further notice and this week she asks
“What’s Your Opinion Of Grudge Holding?”
To sum it up, pretty dumb, but it depends on the circumstances I suppose.
It’s no secret my family and I are not as close knit as most, but I learned to accept that, eventually. There seemed no point in my getting upset or hurt because of someone else’s opinion of me. I couldn’t change it, so why bother trying? It is as it is. Their problem.
As for a grudge, hm. It can be destructive in isolating you from friends or family, whether you hold a grudge against them or they hold one against you.
Personally, I don’t think it’s worth wasting one’s energy.