Do you judge yourself by the same standards that you judge others? If not, are you harsher or more lenient on yourself?
I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt (present tourist issues aside), and not to judge a book by its cover as there could be underlying reasons why people are the way they are.
I concede there are things other people do that I could or would not, but again circumstances come to the fore.
If anything, I think I am harder on myself as I don’t do as well as I think I should, or in the case of technology, can’t get my head round it, get frustrated and this leads to anger…………. with myself.
In my working life, I had a routine as to how things were or should be done, and when training other people, would encourage them to learn the basics, whys and wherefores before looking for shortcuts or omissions. I did not expect more of them than I did of myself, and also would not give them a job I was not prepared to do myself either.
I believe in being fair above all else, what’s good for one is good for everyone else, and abhor those who practice the “Do as I say, not as I do” approach.