Memories around every corner

It’s three weeks ago that we had Mum’s funeral, five weeks and a day since we lost her.
Hubby and I had a field trip in a different direction this morning, and there were memory triggers of her everywhere.
From clumps of spring daffodils beginning to show their heads on the roadside to rabbits (oh the stories of her and rabbits, both wild and concrete!), beech nut trees and swans in the fields.

Lincolnshire is full of drainage ditches for farm irrigation, so it’s no surprise that swans nest on them and bring up their families in the fields running alongside.
When we were here before, we watched a newly mated pair gallantly try to save their clutch from rising water over the course of a week but to no avail, so the nest, and the five eggs therein, was abandoned.
Photo: Nesting Swans (and the lost nest) May 2014 before we moved out of the cottage.

Dad’s funeral in May 1996 was the day before Mum’s birthday, so I took an extra day as personal leave and took her to the Abbotsbury Swannery. The family had clubbed together for Mum to adopt a swan, which she called Henry after my Dad.

Sadly Henry disappeared without trace after a year (had he done so before, Mum would have had a replacement) so it was never known if he found a mate and brought up a family of his own elsewhere.
To compensate to a degree knowing how disappointed Mum was, I took to sending her updates on our local swans, with pictures if I had some.

Of course getting the boat, we could see them close up, and although we never fed them, they were regular visitors to our basin with their babies, so we could watch them grow up.

Photo: adult and five survivors from an original clutch of 7 August 2016

Photo: moving away, you can just see our hull bottom left.

Photo: four of the cygnets, February 2017 (the other was asleep just out of camera range)

When I went to NZ in 2010, it is rare to see a white swan. We had black swans in Poole Park, but they were very few and far between. Mum was fascinated that I was surrounded by so many in one place. We did a calendar for her for 2011 with photographs from my trip and these were in it.

Photo: Napier black swans : New Zealand trip 2010

Now, whenever I see swans, in the fields as we did today or anywhere else, I shall think of Mum, united with her own Henry and hopefully surrounded by swans and everything else in Nature they loved.


About pensitivity101

I am a retired number cruncher with a vivid imagination and wacky sense of humour which extends to short stories and poetry. I love to cook and am a bit of a dog whisperer as I get on better with them than people sometimes! In November 2020, we lost our beloved Maggie who adopted us as a 7 week old pup in March 2005. We decided to have a photo put on canvas as we had for her predecessor Barney. We now have three pictures of our fur babies on the wall as we found a snapshot of Kizzy, my GSD when Hubby and I first met so had hers done too. On February 24th 2022 we were blessed to find Maya, a 13 week old GSD pup who has made her own place in our hearts. You can follow our training methods, photos and her growth in my blog posts. From 2014 to 2017 'Home' was a 41 foot narrow boat where we made strong friendships both on and off the water. We were close to nature enjoying swan and duck families for neighbours, and it was a fascinating chapter in our lives. We now reside in a small bungalow on the Lincolnshire coast where we have forged new friendships and interests.
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14 Responses to Memories around every corner

  1. tidalscribe says:

    I didn’t know there were black swans in NZ as well as Australia. I took a picture of a black swan at Chirstchurch (UK ) Harbour yesterday!

    • Wow! Was this close to the Priory or on the river? We had two in Poole and I only saw them twice. Annie took me to this park in Napier and there were black swans everywhere! I was fascinated, and was able to get so close as they were used to people and didn’t think their young were under threat. The white swans in the marina when we were on the boat came to you on their terms, and if you got too close, they warned you off with a hissy fit!!

      • tidalscribe says:

        On the river, at The Quomps. Strangely, back in August, we were walking with my Australian niece-in-law ( first ever visit to England ) down to the river at Xchurch and immediately saw a pair of black swans, how did they know an Aussi was coming. I have never see them again till the lonely one yesterday.

      • I understand swans usually mate for life, so I hope this was a new adult and not one half of a pair. I’ve only ever seen white ones apart from that time in Poole (my home town). There were several large cygnets in the fields today, so last year’s brood. Once they get to about a year old, apparently the adults push them out to fend for themselves.

  2. foguth says:

    I LOVE swans! Spring in Lincolnshire sounds beautiful.

  3. scifihammy says:

    There will be memories and reminders around every corner, but most will be pleasant. 🙂

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