An invitation………..

Well, actually two.
rsvpThe Marina has a ‘do’ three times a year, a BBQ to start the season, Wine and Canopés in late July/early August, and a Hog Roast at the end of September.
We were invited to this year’s BBQ a couple of months ago, but in all honesty, funds were a bit low and although we were offered a discount (lovely thought), we declined.
As it turned out, we were away anyway.

When we got back from the festival last week, there was an envelope in our post box inviting us to the Wine and Canopés evening.
Hubby and I have decided to go as it will be nice to socialise with our fellow berth holders again for the evening and as the event is actually put on by the Marina, it’s FOC.
Hubby and I aren’t drinkers anyway, but the thought of fancy nibbles in good company over a glass of cool wine actually holds some appeal.

wine and canopes
Our other invitation is for a BBQ and a little different insomuch as it is from the Housing Residents and only a select few from the Marina are ever invited.
We are therefore pleased to be included, even though there is a charge of £7.50 per head, but this includes all meats (salmon if you prefer by previous arrangement), salads, bread etc and desserts (hope there’s cheesecake!) plus a glass of Sangria on arrival.
sangriaWe have been asked to take our own glasses (luckily I have 2 that aren’t plastic) and if we require anything else to drink, to take that along too. I shall opt for Sprite for Hubby and apple juice for me. We have also checked that we can take Maggie.
Our friends from down the way (and Tuppy) have also been invited, and we are already friendly with one of the other boat owners, a lady in her 70s who owns a 60 footer and is absolutely amazing in her single handed travels.

I do however have a little dilemma.
I do not own a frock of any description, and the skirts I kept aren’t exactly posh. Hubby’s best trousers and shirt are too big for him, and I realised with dismay that our standard attire is looking rather scruffy tired and worn. We have already been discarding underwear and socks lately, but we needed to think about tidying ourselves up a bit so as not to let the boating side down.
So, today we have been clothes shopping (something I hate with a passion).
clothes shoppingI am lucky in that Hubby doesn’t mind if I spend a bit of money on myself, but I do.
And if I do, I don’t like to spend a lot.
Unfortunately, the clothes I used to shop for are no longer fashionable available (what’s wrong with kaftans??) and anything even close to what I’d feel comfortable in costs a fortune.
Quite simply, I’m not prepared to pay £10 for a top when I can get one perfectly suitable  for £2.50 elsewhere.

We decided to go into one of the major towns 15 miles away as it has two of the department stores I used to shop in.
I was quite pleased to see that one had a sale on, and when I got inside, I could see why. There was absolutely NOTHING in my size, not even underwear, so I went into the next one only to find their size brackets have changed so nothing would fit comfortably either.
They did have some rather pretty tops though, but at £18 each, forget it.

town centreWe went on to one of the cheaper outlets, though my previous experience here had been disappointing. Their sizing was a disaster for me as my waist is not directly under my boobs so their idea of a long tee shirt was practically a crop top on me instead.
Hubby got himself some socks though (hurrah!) so I was really pleased about that.

We ended up coming back to our nearest main town, where I bought 2 short sleeve tee shirts for £2.50 each, plus 3 packs of underwear in the correct style/size from yesteryear (the last 3 in my size actually), and some sports socks which have a padded sole.

I have checked with one of the ladies on the Residents Committee and we are OK to wear jeans to the BBQ. Now those are tidy and presentable as we only wear them for best!


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I am a retired number cruncher with a vivid imagination and wacky sense of humour which extends to short stories and poetry. I love to cook and am a bit of a dog whisperer as I get on better with them than people sometimes! In November 2020, we lost our beloved Maggie who adopted us as a 7 week old pup in March 2005. We decided to have a photo put on canvas as we had for her predecessor Barney. We now have three pictures of our fur babies on the wall as we found a snapshot of Kizzy, my GSD when Hubby and I first met so had hers done too. On February 24th 2022 we were blessed to find Maya, a 13 week old GSD pup who has made her own place in our hearts. You can follow our training methods, photos and her growth in my blog posts. From 2014 to 2017 'Home' was a 41 foot narrow boat where we made strong friendships both on and off the water. We were close to nature enjoying swan and duck families for neighbours, and it was a fascinating chapter in our lives. We now reside in a small bungalow on the Lincolnshire coast where we have forged new friendships and interests.
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9 Responses to An invitation………..

  1. Capt Jill says:

    You sound a lot like me when I go (rarely) clothes shopping. UGH! I try to avoid dressing in anything but shorts and t-shirts as much as possible. Hope the event was worth the trouble.

    • We have all this to come in a couple of weeks. I’m actually looking forward to both (posts will no doubt follow!)

      • Capt Jill says:

        it does sound like fun, I suppose it’s good to get dressed up every once in a while. I always have fun on Halloween and St Patricks Day. My 2 all time favorite holidays. 🙂

      • The thought of going somewhere in fancy dress takes me back many years when I gave a New Year party. We had some ‘interesting characters’ turn up from witches to lions with myself as a serving wench and partner of the time as a Russ Abbott character in kilt and red wig! It was good fun (apart from him getting drunk).

      • Capt Jill says:

        sounds like a lot of fun! I haven’t been home for a Halloween party for years, tho that’s one of my favorite holidays. I made it home for the St Patricks day parade this year, but missed the costume contest the weekend before. It’s always a blast, the whole town turns out (there’s only about 500 permanent residents). Oh yeah, we do pretty much get drunk too. 🙂

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  3. scifihammy says:

    I’m glad you can wear comfy clothes to these events 🙂 So annoying when styles and sizes are no longer stocked. I picked up some lovely cotton T-shirts in the UK last month at Matalan – and they were 3 for 2! Score! 🙂

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